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Happy Couples
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They might be 30, or 75. They come in all colors, shapes, sizes and income brackets. It doesn’t matter how long they’ve been together. Whatever the demographics, when you see a happy couple, you just know it!

What helped them become a happy couple, here are their secrets:

1. Be realistic about your relationship and the challenges it might face. There will be good times and there will be bad times.

2. Work on the relationship. Make effort. Work towards being a happy couple.

Mr. & Mrs. Aziz, married for 30 years now and not only a self declared happy couple but one that is idealized by friends and family alike, sum up their relationship: ‘The truth is that a good relationship, like anything you want to succeed in life, must be worked on and tended to on a regular basis. Neglect the relationship, and it will often go downhill.’

3. Spend time together. There is no substitute for shared quality time.

4. It is healthy to have some separate interests and activities and to come back to the relationship refreshed and ready to share your experiences. Missing your partner helps remind you how important he or she is to you.

5. Don’t expect your partner to change. If both you and your partner stop trying to change each other, you will eliminate the source of most of your arguments.

6. Accept that some problems can’t be solved. There may be issues upon which you cannot agree. Stop trying to agree on them.

7. Honesty is essential. Mistrust is one of the key deal breakers in relationships.

8. Respect your partner, and don’t take him or her for granted.

9. Cultivate common interests. Don't minimize the importance of activities you can do together that you both enjoy.

10. Walk hand in hand or side by side. Rather than one partner lagging or dragging behind the other, happy couples walk comfortably hand in hand or side by side.

11. Make trust and forgiveness your default mode.

12. Focus more on what your partner does right than what he or she does wrong.

13. Say nice things to each other often.

14. Call your partner at home or at work to see how his or her day is going. This is a great way to adjust expectations so that you're more in sync when you connect after work. For instance, if your partner is having an awful day, it might be unreasonable to expect him or her to be enthusiastic about something good that happened to you.

15. Be proud to be seen with your partner. Happy couples are pleased to be seen together and are often in some kind of affectionate contact -- hand on hand or hand on shoulder or knee or back of neck. They are not showing off but rather just saying that they belong with each other.

Happy couple is not a status that a couple is born with; it is a status that is acquired and earned over time. It comes with patience and perseverance. You have to want to be a in a relationship with your partner. You have to want to be married. You have to want to be happy with that special one. When you want it you get it. So want to be a happy couple and you will be one.

Marriage is a sacred union and it should not be given up on too quick. Give it time, and put in effort and even a bad relationship will be flourishing again.

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